Shamrocks in the yard capture the spirit of Easter . . .
Sunday, April 4, 2021
Sunday, March 14, 2021
The Colors of Spring
All of the cold rain last month finally gave way to something lovely . . .
The cascading flowers of this Pieris Katsura are like Elton John's tiny dancer, ballerinas in the palm of my hand.
Hellebores plants hide their flowers well, though not well enough. They tilt their faces down, but you can still see their freckles and fingers teasing shyly. Beguiling queens.
Yellow defines spring, and daffodils, like ladies-in-waiting, bloom everywhere--happy and willing to delight. As A. A. Milne wrote, "She turned to the sunlight and shook her yellow head, and whispered to her neighbor. Winter is dead."
O forsythia, forsythia, wherefore art thou, forsythia? Deny thy father and refuse thy name, but we will admire you just the same.
Finally, from Sesame Street, "One of these things is not like the others/One of these things just doesn't belong/Can you tell which thing is not like the others/By the time I finish my song?" (Hint: the not-so-subtle color)
Thursday, June 27, 2013
Life Lessons From the Garden
1. Sometimes you have to cut off part of a plant for the whole to thrive.
2. Sometimes you have to move a plant out of the spot--I mean--sunlight.
3. Sometimes you have to move a plant to the other side of the yard.
4. Sometimes you have to accept that plants will die no matter what you do.
5. Sometimes you have to let the wind and the bees and the rain take over.
6. Sometimes you can't dislodge a weed from the rock that protects it.
7. Sometimes you can't tell the difference between a baby flower bud and a dying flower head.
8. Sometimes you can't get a plant to grow straight.
9. Sometimes you can't keep the deer away.
10.Sometimes you can't imagine what your efforts will yield.
Thursday, June 20, 2013
On Being Real
I think about the Velveteen Rabbit and wonder what the "real" rabbits in our yard think of this sculptured imposter. For as the Skin Horse in Margery Williams' The Velveteen Rabbit tells us, "You become. It takes a long time. That's why it doesn't happen often to people who break easily, or have sharp edges, or who have to be carefully kept. Generally, by the time you are Real, most of your hair has been loved off, and your eyes drop out and you get loose in your joints and very shabby. But these things don't matter at all, because once you are Real you can't be ugly, except to people who don't understand."
I think my stone bunny is Real.
Thursday, June 6, 2013
Thursday, May 30, 2013
April Showers Brought May Flowers
Whenever I see the name Gerbera daisy, I think of Gerber's Baby Food. This is unfortunate, for this delightful plant ought not to generate such a mundane image.
The botanical name for the pincushion flower is scabiosa, which sounds like a disease. We'll stick with pincushion.
Spirea is properly spelled spiraea. It rhymes with Crimea, Korea, and Medea (according to the online Merriam-Webster Dictionary). It has medicinal properties similar to aspirin, though an overdose could be fatal.
This Virginia Spiderwort looks like a wreath. Native Americans used the plant to treat a host of maladies including insect bites, kidney trouble, stomach aches, cancer, and "female ailments and rupture." I imagine our forebears produced these medicines more safely, simply, and cheaply than the pharmaceuticals that are foisted on us today.
Bacopa is supposed to improve your memory. Dr. Oz recommends taking 150 mg per day, but Dr. Weil recommends crossword puzzles, reading, and other more rigorously-studied supplements. If I could, I'd like to know what the Native Americans recommend; they seem more knowledgeable.
Thursday, May 16, 2013
May Monotony
Monday, May 13, 2013
Monday, May 6, 2013
Springtime Magic
"White coral bells upon a slender stalk,
Lilies of the valley deck my garden walk.
Oh, don't you wish that you could hear them ring?
That will happen only when the fairies sing."
They must be out again, those fairies, for I hear the bells tinkling in the breeze.
Monday, April 1, 2013
Duke Gardens Reflections
"And this, our life, exempt from public haunt, finds tongues in trees, books in the running brooks, sermons in stones, and good in everything."
~ William Shakespeare, As You Like It
Thursday, March 21, 2013
Helen Borus

. . . which reminds me of a story about my friend Mary. When she started confirmation class at our church years ago, the minister met with both the kids and their parents at the first meeting. In giving an overview of our theology, he said, "We're not a church that believes in hell and damnation."
Puzzled by this statement, Mary turned to her mother and whispered, "Helen who?"
So here's to Helen Damnation, whoever she is, and a plant that shares her etymology.
Monday, March 4, 2013
Southern Pride
Monday, January 28, 2013
The Garden in Winter
- Pietro Aretino
"When the bold branches
Bid farewell to rainbow leaves --
Welcome wool sweaters."
- B. Cybrill
"'Hear! Hear!' screamed the jay from a neighboring tree, where I had heard a tittering for some time, 'winter has a concentrated and nutty kernel, if you know where to look for it.'"
- Henry David Thoreau
Thursday, January 3, 2013
Thursday, December 6, 2012
Thursday, November 15, 2012
Autumn: In the Garden
You find a flower half-buried in leaves,
And in your eye its very fate resides.
Loving beauty, you caress the bloom;
Soon enough, you'll sweep petals from the floor.
Terrible to love the lovely so,
To count your own years, to say "I'm old,"
To see a flower half-buried in leaves
And come face to face with what you are.
- Han Shan
Saturday, October 27, 2012
Time Out
The long and winding hose that leads to my door
Will never disappear
I've seen that hose before
It always leads me here
Leads me to my door.
Many times I've been at home and many times I've cried
Anyway you'll never know the many times I've tried
To wind this hose back up in a neat coil so flat
Just like my neighbors do, whose yards are always clear
Don't leave me standing here
Help me wind this up.
But still the hose resists any tries to get it right
You left it tangled up a long, long time ago
Don't keep me waiting here, put this hose away
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Monday, October 15, 2012
Eat, Pray, Martha
You see, even though that old subscription ended, we got a new one last year--this time, a freebie from a Stonyfield Yogurt contest. The magazine, Martha Stewart Living, is filled with beautiful food, beautiful decor, and beautiful people--perfection, of a sort. My favorite feature is called "Martha's Month," a one-page calendar that highlights Martha's daily activities. Next month, for example, she will "Replace any expired spices" on November 2; "Polish silverware on November 20; "Stargaze with telescope" on November 27; and "Get blades sharpened on ice skates" on November 30.
Tell me, does anyone live like this?
Nowhere on her calendar does it ever say "Sort through piles of paper stacked throughout house" on November 6; "Water dying houseplants" on November 15; "Delete 200 emails" on November 21; or "Gather 10-year-old 35 mm film for developing" on November 28. Only then could I relate.
Martha Stewart a religious figure? In a way. She's developed a set of precepts for living; they're clearly spelled out; and she tries to teach you how to live up to them. And, like most religious precepts, they're impossible to follow!
Thursday, October 11, 2012
Water Wonders
Some resemble fancy plates with red rims
This one reminds me of a heart
Rose-colored fans swirl nearby
And hot pink blossoms keep the memory of summer alive.
Thursday, September 13, 2012
In the Garden: Mushrooms
or like they belong in a zoo.
Still others look like buttons and parasols:
When I googled "Mushrooms that look like coral," I learned that there's a type called Coral Mushrooms:
Once I saw a TV show that featured a guy in the mountains who grew his own morels. They looked like this:
He encouraged viewers to follow his lead. It didn't sound too hard. I briefly entertained the idea, imagining how cool it would be to harvest my own morels, but soon realized that the grocery store was easier.



























